{"id":1897,"date":"2023-12-20T01:30:26","date_gmt":"2023-12-20T00:30:26","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/www.versebyversebible.cz\/?p=1897"},"modified":"2023-12-20T01:32:30","modified_gmt":"2023-12-20T00:32:30","slug":"jak-predat-viru-svym-detem-rod-dreher","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/versebyversebible.hiseo.cz\/en\/articles\/jak-predat-viru-svym-detem-rod-dreher\/","title":{"rendered":"Jak p\u0159edat v\u00edru sv\u00fdm d\u011btem – Rod Dreher"},"content":{"rendered":"

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Tady je p\u00e1r m\u00fdch post\u0159eh\u016f pro k\u0159es\u0165any, kte\u0159\u00ed cht\u011bj\u00ed, aby si tak\u00e9 jejich d\u011bti uchovaly v\u00edru:<\/p>\n\n\n\n

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  1. P\u0159ijm\u011bte, \u017ee na to neexistuje \u017e\u00e1dn\u00fd nepr\u016fst\u0159eln\u00fd recept<\/strong>. N\u00e1bo\u017eenskou v\u00edru nelze do \u010dlov\u011bka nainstalovat jako po\u010d\u00edta\u010dov\u00fd program. Nen\u00ed \u017e\u00e1dn\u00e1 dokonal\u00e1 aplikace, kter\u00e1 by p\u0159edala d\u011btem zbo\u017enost. To neznamen\u00e1, \u017ee nem\u016f\u017eete d\u011blat nic, jen byste se m\u011bli vyvarovat dojmu, \u017ee n\u011bkdo m\u00e1 v t\u00e9hle v\u011bci k dispozici tajn\u00fd pl\u00e1n.<\/li>\n<\/ol>\n\n\n\n
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    • Nesv\u011b\u0159ujte n\u00e1bo\u017eenskou v\u00fdchovu zcela do ciz\u00edch rukou<\/strong>. Jste prvn\u00edmi n\u00e1bo\u017eensk\u00fdmi vzd\u011blavateli sv\u00fdch d\u011bt\u00ed. Person\u00e1l va\u0161\u00ed farnosti nebo k\u0159es\u0165ansk\u00e9 \u0161koly v\u00e1m m\u016f\u017ee \u2013 a m\u00e1 \u2013 pom\u00e1hat, ale z v\u011bt\u0161\u00ed \u010d\u00e1sti je \u00fakol na v\u00e1s.<\/li>\n<\/ul>\n\n\n\n
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      • \u017dijte svou v\u00edru<\/strong>. Nejd\u016fle\u017eit\u011bj\u0161\u00ed formou n\u00e1bo\u017eensk\u00e9ho vzd\u011bl\u00e1v\u00e1n\u00ed v rodin\u00e1ch je osobn\u00ed p\u0159\u00edklad. R\u016fzn\u00e9 studie st\u00e1le znovu ukazuj\u00ed, \u017ee n\u00e1bo\u017eenskost lze lid\u00ed nejl\u00e9pe p\u0159edpov\u011bd\u011bt podle toho, zda i rodi\u010de v\u00edru \u017eili. Nesta\u010d\u00ed \u0159\u00edci: \u201eV tohle v\u011b\u0159\u00edme.\u201c Je t\u0159eba se vydat na cestu a po t\u00e9 j\u00edt. B\u016fh pro v\u00e1s mus\u00ed b\u00fdt \u017eivou skute\u010dnost\u00ed \u2013 a ne pouze o ned\u011bl\u00edch a sv\u00e1tc\u00edch.<\/li>\n<\/ul>\n\n\n\n
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        • \u017divot z v\u00edry znamen\u00e1 z 80 procent formaci, z 20 procent p\u0159edanou informaci<\/strong>. Kdy\u017e mi bylo n\u011bco p\u0159es dvacet, jako zap\u00e1len\u00fd konvertita jsem se domn\u00edval, \u017ee odpov\u011bd\u00ed na odvracen\u00ed se k\u0159es\u0165an\u016f od v\u00edry je lep\u0161\u00ed katecheze. Te\u010f je mi pades\u00e1t, pro\u0161el jsem vlastn\u00edmi hlubok\u00fdmi a bolestiv\u00fdmi n\u00e1bo\u017eensk\u00fdmi ot\u0159esy a t\u00e9m\u011b\u0159 osmn\u00e1ct let u\u017e vychov\u00e1v\u00e1m d\u011bti. Ji\u017e vid\u00edm, \u017ee vzd\u011bl\u00e1v\u00e1n\u00ed tvo\u0159\u00ed jen \u010d\u00e1st cel\u00e9 odpov\u011bdi \u2013 a ne tu nejd\u016fle\u017eit\u011bj\u0161\u00ed. Nechci katechezi zneva\u017eovat \u2013 mysl\u00edm, \u017ee v\u0161ichni v\u00edme, \u017ee bychom se j\u00ed m\u011bli v\u011bnovat d\u016fkladn\u011bji \u2013, jen bych r\u00e1d zd\u016fraznil, \u017ee praxe <\/em>znamen\u00e1 v\u00edc ne\u017e ovl\u00e1dnut\u00ed informac\u00ed.<\/li>\n<\/ul>\n\n\n\n
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          • Neut\u00edkejte p\u0159ed velk\u00fdmi ot\u00e1zkami<\/strong>. \u201ePro\u010d B\u016fh dopustil, \u017ee teta Ruthie um\u0159ela?\u201c To je dobr\u00e1 a v\u00e1\u017en\u00e1 ot\u00e1zka. Zasluhuje si dobrou a v\u00e1\u017enou odpov\u011b\u010f \u2013 a \u0159\u00edci \u201eS jistotou to nev\u00edm,\u201c je lep\u0161\u00ed ne\u017e sm\u00e9st dotaz ze stolu pomoc\u00ed fr\u00e1z\u00ed. Dnes u\u017e vid\u00edm, \u017ee n\u00e1bo\u017eenstv\u00ed bylo v m\u00e9 rodin\u011b nev\u011bdom\u011b pou\u017e\u00edv\u00e1no jako bari\u00e9ra proti skute\u010dn\u00fdm mravn\u00edm a teologick\u00fdm ot\u00e1zk\u00e1m. Kdy\u017e poslouch\u00e1m druh\u00e9, jak vypr\u00e1v\u011bj\u00ed o sv\u00e9m d\u011btstv\u00ed, v\u00edm, \u017ee v tom nejsem s\u00e1m.<\/li>\n<\/ul>\n\n\n\n
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            • Povzbuzujte smysl pro \u00fa\u017eas.<\/strong> Ve\u0161ker\u00e9 prav\u00e9 n\u00e1bo\u017eenstv\u00ed za\u010d\u00edn\u00e1 \u017easnut\u00edm. Vystavte sv\u00e9 d\u011bti (a sebe) Bo\u017e\u00ed p\u0159\u00edtomnosti v p\u0159\u00edrod\u011b, v posv\u00e1tn\u00e9m um\u011bn\u00ed a architektu\u0159e, v literatu\u0159e. Jinak riskujete, \u017ee se jejich zku\u0161enost s v\u00edrou scvrkne v such\u00fd moralismus.<\/li>\n<\/ul>\n\n\n\n
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              • Pomozte d\u011btem vn\u00edmat univerz\u00e1lnost a historicitu c\u00edrkve<\/strong>. C\u00edrkev je velk\u00e1 a zahrnuje nesm\u00edrnou \u0161\u00ed\u0159i lidsk\u00e9 zku\u0161enosti posledn\u00edch dvou tis\u00edcilet\u00ed. Toto d\u011bdictv\u00ed pat\u0159\u00ed i va\u0161im d\u011btem. Sd\u00edlejte je s nimi.<\/li>\n<\/ul>\n\n\n\n
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                • Kr\u00e1sa a Dobro jsou podce\u0148ovan\u00ed u\u010ditel\u00e9 a sv\u011bdci<\/strong>. Tenhle bod vypl\u00fdv\u00e1 z v\u011bc\u00ed \u0159e\u010den\u00fdch v\u00fd\u0161e, ale p\u0159esto jej chci zd\u016fraznit. V na\u0161\u00ed \u201epost-pravdiv\u00e9\u201c dob\u011b bude pro mnoh\u00e9 mlad\u00e9 snaz\u0161\u00ed nach\u00e1zet Boha, jak se zjevuje v Kr\u00e1se a Dobru (tj. v \u017eivotech svat\u00fdch a ve skutc\u00edch hrdinsk\u00e9 ob\u011bti, milosrdenstv\u00ed a soucitu, kter\u00e9 je obklopuj\u00ed). Kdy\u017e je mysl lid\u00ed uzav\u0159en\u00e1 v\u016f\u010di p\u0159ita\u017elivosti Pravdy \u2013 tak jako byla b\u011bhem dosp\u00edv\u00e1n\u00ed i ta m\u00e1 \u2013 Kr\u00e1sa a Dobro mohou nad\u00e1le b\u00fdt p\u0159\u00edstupovou cestou. Pozor v\u0161ak na past v podob\u011b domn\u011bnky, \u017ee na Pravd\u011b nez\u00e1le\u017e\u00ed, ale pouze na subjektivn\u00ed zku\u0161enosti a na laskavosti. Ve skute\u010dnosti to v\u0161e pat\u0159\u00ed k sob\u011b.<\/li>\n<\/ul>\n\n\n\n
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                  • Praktikujte mal\u00e9 ob\u0159ady odpou\u0161t\u011bn\u00ed. <\/strong>Nikdy nezapomenu, jak jsem na po\u010d\u00e1tku postn\u00ed doby roku 2006 vid\u011bl arcibiskupa Dmitrije z Dallasu, jak se skl\u00e1n\u00ed k d\u011btem, pros\u00ed je o odpu\u0161t\u011bn\u00ed a odpov\u00edd\u00e1 na jejich prosby o odpu\u0161t\u011bn\u00ed podle pravoslavn\u00e9ho zvyku. Zanechalo to na m\u011b obrovsk\u00fd dojem a sna\u017e\u00edm se \u017e\u00edt podle jeho p\u0159\u00edkladu. Kdy\u017e na d\u011bti vyjedu, anebo s nimi zach\u00e1z\u00edm nespravedliv\u011b, kaju se a pros\u00edm je o odpu\u0161t\u011bn\u00ed. \u0158ekly mi, \u017ee to pro n\u011b mnoho znamen\u00e1. Kdyby byl m\u016fj otec b\u00fdval jednal stejn\u011b, bylo by mi to zm\u011bnilo \u017eivot \u2013 a vsad\u00edm se, \u017ee jemu taky.<\/li>\n<\/ul>\n\n\n\n
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                    1. Nakonec nez\u00e1le\u017e\u00ed na v\u00e1s, ale na Bohu a na va\u0161ich d\u011btech<\/strong>. B\u016fh n\u00e1m v\u0161em dal svobodu. Nep\u0159inut\u00ed n\u00e1s, abychom ho p\u0159ijali. Ani vy k tomu nem\u016f\u017eete sv\u00e9 d\u011bti p\u0159inutit. Ud\u011blejte, co je ve va\u0161ich sil\u00e1ch a zbytek nechte na N\u011bm.<\/li>\n<\/ol>\n\n\n\n

                      Pro obnovu k\u0159es\u0165ansk\u00e9 kultury jsou n\u00e1vyky d\u016fle\u017eit\u011bj\u0161\u00ed ne\u017e obrodn\u00e1 hnut\u00ed, ka\u017edodenn\u00ed ritu\u00e1ly pou\u010dn\u011bj\u0161\u00ed ne\u017e n\u00e1bo\u017eensk\u00e9 ext\u00e1ze, vyzn\u00e1n\u00ed v\u00edry pronikav\u011bj\u0161\u00ed ne\u017e teologick\u00e9 post\u0159ehy. Z\u00e1le\u017e\u00ed na jedn\u00e1n\u00ed, a pokud n\u011bco d\u011bl\u00e1me pro Boha, B\u016fh t\u00edm d\u011bl\u00e1n\u00edm d\u011bl\u00e1 n\u011bco pro n\u00e1s.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

                      Bu\u010fte c\u00edrkv\u00ed, nikoliv sv\u011btem. P\u0159esta\u0148te se pokou\u0161et o p\u0159izp\u016fsoben\u00ed se sv\u011btu, o p\u0159ibl\u00ed\u017een\u00ed se \u201ehleda\u010d\u016fm\u201c. Bu\u010fte jin\u00ed. Nebojte se st\u00e1t za n\u011b\u010d\u00edm, co je ciz\u00ed va\u0161emu m\u00edstu a va\u0161\u00ed dob\u011b. Mor\u00e1ln\u00ed terapeutick\u00fd deismus je \u2013 jako lacin\u00e1 milost \u2013 smrt\u00edc\u00edm nep\u0159\u00edtelem C\u00edrkve. Bojujte s n\u00edm \u2013 a bojujte radostn\u011b.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

                      Z autorova blogu vybral a p\u0159elo\u017eil \u0160t\u011bp\u00e1n Smolen, redak\u010dn\u011b kr\u00e1ceno.<\/p>","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"

                      Tady je p\u00e1r m\u00fdch post\u0159eh\u016f pro k\u0159es\u0165any, kte\u0159\u00ed cht\u011bj\u00ed, aby si tak\u00e9 jejich d\u011bti uchovaly v\u00edru: Pro obnovu k\u0159es\u0165ansk\u00e9 kultury jsou n\u00e1vyky d\u016fle\u017eit\u011bj\u0161\u00ed ne\u017e obrodn\u00e1 hnut\u00ed, ka\u017edodenn\u00ed ritu\u00e1ly pou\u010dn\u011bj\u0161\u00ed ne\u017e n\u00e1bo\u017eensk\u00e9 ext\u00e1ze, vyzn\u00e1n\u00ed v\u00edry pronikav\u011bj\u0161\u00ed ne\u017e teologick\u00e9 post\u0159ehy. Z\u00e1le\u017e\u00ed na jedn\u00e1n\u00ed, a pokud n\u011bco d\u011bl\u00e1me pro Boha, B\u016fh t\u00edm d\u011bl\u00e1n\u00edm d\u011bl\u00e1 n\u011bco pro n\u00e1s. Bu\u010fte […]<\/p>","protected":false},"author":2,"featured_media":1900,"comment_status":"closed","ping_status":"open","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"footnotes":""},"categories":[27],"tags":[],"class_list":["post-1897","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","has-post-thumbnail","hentry","category-articles"],"_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/versebyversebible.hiseo.cz\/en\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/1897","targetHints":{"allow":["GET"]}}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/versebyversebible.hiseo.cz\/en\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/versebyversebible.hiseo.cz\/en\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/versebyversebible.hiseo.cz\/en\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/users\/2"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/versebyversebible.hiseo.cz\/en\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/comments?post=1897"}],"version-history":[{"count":0,"href":"https:\/\/versebyversebible.hiseo.cz\/en\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/1897\/revisions"}],"wp:featuredmedia":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/versebyversebible.hiseo.cz\/en\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media\/1900"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/versebyversebible.hiseo.cz\/en\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media?parent=1897"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/versebyversebible.hiseo.cz\/en\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/categories?post=1897"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/versebyversebible.hiseo.cz\/en\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/tags?post=1897"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}